Wednesday, March 21, 2012

strong, yet weak


I feel as though my greatest strength as a person is my desire to be understood. I grew up in a family of poor communicators both verbally and emotionally and it’s something that I have always strived to correct about myself.
Effective communication is an imperative skill which is universal to every career path, every interaction, and every simple conversation. There simply is no meaningful instance where being understood fully is a negative thing.
This being said, I believe that this is one of the main reasons why I have chosen to become a Graphic Designer, a.k.a. a visual communicator.
My greatest weakness (although there are many,) from an introspective standpoint would most likely be my distaste for being critiqued. Be it my hairstyle, the clothes I wear, the font I choose or the paper I print on, it upsets me every time when someone comments negatively on something I have done. Even unconscious, meaningless things like an accidental pen mark on my chin, when commented upon I immediately get defensive and put up a wall of arrogance. Who’s to say that I didn’t want that pen mark there? Maybe it was intentional?
Understandably this is a trait I need to shake, or at least learn to deal with better, but the unexamined life is a life not worth living.

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